Gentlemen, the pathway to a fulfilling life as a man will stop and start with your ability to hug the cactus!
The cactus is learning to embrace the parts of you, that you don’t like. This Self acceptance on the ground floor of your life . Once you embrace that, understand it, the outcome is humility, compassion, and empathy.
If you have not finished this developmental stage the outcome is arrogance, narcissism, and self-centeredness . Your partner, and you both know the difference between the cactus humility and arrogance.
Hugging the cactus is the fast track to everything you want in your life plus more .
What is bothers you about yourself and what are you gonna do to stop avoiding it? Then you have the ability to change it.
See my book modern masculinity for more information about this process @amazon
@guardado_kat thank you for your excellent producing and directing skills
Thank You,
Dr Steve