Gentlemen, if there’s one word, you want to lose from your vocabulary by the end of this year, it would be the word “Blame!”
The dynamic of blame in relationship can be like to allowing a cancerous tumor to continue to grow untreated, unchecked and undiagnosed in your body. We know the end result is pain, suffering, and physical death. The same holds true for blaming, gaslighting and not taking responsibility for your actions. All these behaviors breed a deep sense of despair in your intimate relationship. Our mental health is greatly enhanced by our ability to be humble and responsible for what we do or don’t do ?
Responsibility is a superpower. Its something we all possess at any given moment at any given opportunity. If things aren’t happening in your life the way you like, look in the mirror and figure out what you can do to change the direction. The path/course of your life is your creation and full responsibility.
Thank you,
Dr. Steve Poulter